Thursday, 26 February 2009

Knowing me, knowing you...

Something I've been thinking a lot about recently is friendship.  

What does it mean to be a good friend?  This has been on my mind for the last few months because I've got some fabulous friends who I want to support and be the best possible person I can be for them.  Although friendship is a completely natural thing to humans, I think that is also something that can be developed and worked at.  

So how do we be the best friend we can?


4 years...

So today is 4 years since our little fire incident.  Crazy huh?!

Sunday, 15 February 2009

Right now I feel...

confused.   But also relieved I remembered the password to this site.  So will blog again in the next few days.

Tuesday, 26 August 2008

You've got a friend

Over this weekend, I experienced amazing hospitality.  I went to Momentum with a friend, her cousin (who I did not know) and her cousins uni friends.  And despite not knowing these people, being a complete stranger to them, I was completely welcomed for the week.

To be honest, if I had arranged to go away for a few days with friends, and a random joined the group, I would not be impressed.  I would not have gone out of my way to include them, or to befriend them, but this is what I experienced this week.

These people taught me so much about friendship and love.

Monday, 11 August 2008

Grateful

A friend of mine wrote a post along these lines recently, and I thought it was a good idea, as it stops me whinging!  So what have I been grateful for over the last few weeks?

1) Friends, both old and new.  
I've been stupidly busy over the last year and haven't had much time to see my friends, so I've really enjoyed spending lots of time with them this summer.  I've been to New York to see one lovely friend, who I hadn't seen in over a year, so that was fabulous.  And then I had a week away where I spent loads of time with lovely people, and met some new friends.  You know when you  barely know someone, then you spend time with them and you completely click and find you can tell them absolutely anything?  I found someone like this over the summer, which is always a winner.  And then last week I spent a lovely day catching up with a wonderful person who has helped me through some difficult times in the past.  So all in all, I love all my friends and feel so grateful to have them.  I actually don't know where (if anywhere) I'd be without some of them. 

2) Slightly more shallowly...my new phone and laptop.  
Both very beautiful...so beautiful that I don't think I can say anything else!

3) My holidays.  
Despite being absolutely broke, I've had a lovely holiday in New York, then went to Norfolk/ Suffolk (not sure which!) and am going to Belgium this week, and then possibly down to Somerset.  After being stuck in London for the last year, it's been so nice to escape and breathe fresh air!

4) My health.
Yes, so I sound like a little old lady here.  But I've never really thought about this before.  I've always taken it for granted, but I realised the other day how lucky I am to be alive and healthy, both physically and mentally.

As I am such a whinger, I'm going to try and post along these lines every few weeks...so look forward to some optimism!

x

PS: Fancy sharing a joke...
       Q) What do you call a man with no shins?
       A) Tony! (Say it...Toe-knee...)

Monday, 30 June 2008

When I cried a river

www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyheJ480LYA

I saw this video (which for some reason would not post as a nice playable link) over the weekend and found it so powerful.  Some of the things in it are so poignant to me and are things that I've struggled with, and I love the way it represents the Christian walk of life.

Like many people, I was in floods of tears when watching this.  

Sunday, 29 June 2008

Who can catch me?

I was reminded this weekend about how hard I find it to trust people.  Can anyone be truly and completely trusted?  I don't think so, as humans are flawed beings.  Whether we like it or not, people judge each other, upset each other and disappoint.

I've also been reminded about how you can feel so let down by people.  Maybe intentionally, maybe not, people hurt you and ruin that bit of trust you were beginning to put in them.  That is something which is so hard to repair while the memories are still present.

Most of the time, I accept that I am not a trusting person.  Sure, I'll tell 'girly secrets' to people, or share who my latest crush is, but share something close to my heart, or something that upsets me? No, I can't do this easily.  Most of the time this is fine, I'm content to keep it in my head, but there are other times, like this weekend, that this begins to eat you up, and you wish you trusted enough to share.